I am getting a divorce, what happens with the children?

Going through a separation or divorce is difficult for parents but often even harder on the children of the family. They often don’t understand why their parents are separating, they may not appreciate the time spent trying to repair the relationship and they can often believe they are to blame for the separation.

To avoid communication irreparably breaking down, it is vital for children that parents ensure an agreement is reached as soon as possible. This allows the children to adjust to the new ‘normal’ but also gives them as must stability as possible in what can otherwise be a very challenging time for the whole family.

At Metcalfe Copeman & Pettefar, we have experts who specialise in resolving disputes regarding the child arrangements. We are able to advise as to the best means to negotiate an agreement, to include consideration of alternative dispute resolution. We can assist you in negotiating and implementing an arrangement for the children so to avoid the need for lengthy court proceedings. The agreement can be formalised in writing so to give the parents something to work from. We will help you take the heat out of the situation and focus the attention on what is best for the children.

Of course, not all parents are able to reach an agreement. This can be because the issues are too complex or serious. Or perhaps the relationship is so fractured, any form of communication is impossible. Mediation is a pre-requisite to court proceedings and unless your matter is urgent or there is a risk to either party or the children, it must be attempted before making an application to court. If mediation fails, we can advise you as to the type of application you should make, complete the necessary Court applications and be there with you at Court to pursue the arrangements you are seeking.

Our family specialists have dealt with all types of children cases, to include living arrangements and contact disputes, jurisdiction issues, disputes about schooling, to name a few. Contact our expert Family team on 01733 865880, so we can help you to resolve any disputes, no matter how great or small, regarding your child’s living arrangements.